Monday, October 29, 2012

Chess, a Sweater, and a little more Charlotte

     Chess has become very popular in our house lately, mostly due to the influence of school.  Every Thursday afternoon the kids play chess after school.  Chess in the classroom, chess on the lawn, chess everywhere.  Rosie already knew how to play and Charlotte wanted to learn so at home we've been reading through "Gary's Adventures in Chess Country" by Igor Sukhin.  Wonderful book!  Each chapter introduces a new piece in a fun way and teaches kids how to use it.  There are puzzles at the end of each chapter that help reinforce what they just learned and also teach basic strategy.  We do fun things like using sweets for the "mines" in some of the puzzles and using legos for others.  When they solve the puzzle they get to eat one of the "mines" (well, not the lego ones).  Charlotte has learned how to use all of the pieces except for the pawns and the king, but she's still an easy target for Rosie.


Rosie has been learning to be more careful and check for danger, as well as using a little bit of strategy...but she's still an easy target for Loeto.


 Remember this?  



 It has become this:  



















Yes, I jumped.  Yes, I look silly.  Remember that you asked to see the picture.

     My poor Charlotte came home from school sick today, but as soon as she got some medicine in her it was back to being fancy.  "Mommy, take a picture of my hair and post it on Facebook for grandma to see!"  It was nice getting to spend an unexpected day with my Charlie (pronounced Sharlie per her request).  After the rough first week of school she is just loving it and was very sad to miss out today.  Hopefully she'll be better for tomorrow, but I doubt it.  Dare I confess that I hope she stays home so we can have another day of cuddling and watching movies?  



Friday, October 19, 2012

In which Charlotte loses another tooth

It's the end of another week of school and things are going well for the children.  Charlotte seemed to have trouble the first week, but this week went much better.  This afternoon she came home with a slight South African accent, but three hours later it's fading.  I wonder how long before it stays?

In more Charlottey news, she lost another tooth today!  When it rains, it poors, and the tooth mouse comes to stay!  I took her outside to take a picture and, well, how can you take just one picture of Charlotte?!



Why, yes, that is a tooth rose.  Thank you, Charlotte.  





And always take time to stop and smell the roses.




Still no news on a car or house.  We're trying to raise the 50% down payment and are waiting on news of loan possibilities from the States to make that happen.  And the car.  Well, we're probably going to have to wait 3 more months until we can qualify for a car loan because cars here are just too expensive for us to buy outright (and we have to use our savings for a house).  I have to admit that that is one of the most difficult things about this move- lack of mobility.  SO thankful for the Beckleys' car that we can use, but really eager to have our own...especially one with an automatic transmission.    

Saturday, October 13, 2012

Shongololo!

Look what we found on the driveway this morning!




A millipede!  Otherwise known as a shongololo.  Shongololo just sounds so much more fun than millipede.  Who will touch it first?  

 





Charlotte, of course!  






The boys poked it and then tried roaring at it, but Mr. Shongololo wasn't too impressed.  
 



Thursday, October 11, 2012

A tooth, a fever, and a house.



Look who lost her first tooth today!


Wait, this is Charlotte we're talking about...


Henry's new skill for the day: photo bombing.  Yes, done on purpose.  Then I asked them to act like they loved each other for a picture.  Yup, that's about right.  


Yesterday Liam came home from school with a fever and so he stayed home with mommy today.  By the time the other kids came home from school his fever was gone, but he's a little tired.  As I was taking pictures of Charlotte I turned around and saw this.  So pitiful and sweet.


We kind of, sort of made progress toward getting a house today.  We made an offer on a house, but now there is the small matter of coming up with a 50% down payment (a requirement because of the nature of our visas).  We're also trying to get our car situation sorted out, but it has been frustratingly slow.  We do not qualify for a car loan here because we have not been in the country long enough.  But...for a car that will fit our family it is at least $40,000 (unless we get very lucky and find one used, but the prices for used aren't much lower).  We're hoping to get financing from the US, but haven't heard word yet.  So, like always here...we wait.  

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

First day of school!

     Today was the kids' first day of school!  They're jumping in for the 4th term here (school runs from January-December) so Rosie is finishing up 2nd grade, Charlotte 1st grade, and the boys are both in RR.  

     The kids were all up very early ("Mommy, I got up at 5:42!") and ready to go.  Where did these big girls come from?!


All my big kids ready to go!



     James and I took the kids to school together.  It was a cool, misty morning that threatened rain but never came through with it.  


     What?!  Your school doesn't have peacocks behind the library?!  (ok, ok, peafowl)  This is on the way to the R(Reception) and RR classrooms.  



 
 The preschool playground where the boys spend much of their day.


 Charlotte's class(left) and Rosie's class (right). they are across from each other around a common area.


Playground for grades 1 and up.  I love the acacia tree- just seems so African. 





Animal house (left) and Peafowl hanging out with the bunnies (right).


     "But I thought you were homeschooling?"  Well, that was originally our plan because we had not heard good things about the schools here.  Indeed, the government schools are not an option and most private schools are run by churches and so are also not options.  This school, Ridgeway Independent School, is a private school with no religious leanings whatsoever.  It's just a private school.  It's also rather inexpensive (well, compared to private schools in the States...here it is considered extremely expensive.  Also, there is no such thing as a free school here- there are fees for government schools as well as private).  This school focuses on academics, basic good values (honesty, integrity, respect for all men, etc), and living in and taking care of our environment- all things that we care about.  As you can see from the pictures, it has lovely grounds and the kids are encouraged to be outside and work with the animals and know all about the plants and birds around them.  We thought that going to school would be the best way for them to adjust to a new country and make friends.  Certainly it is the easiest and fastest way for them to learn the languages (they will have an Afrikaans class and of course the English is different) and culture.  

     The first day went really well.  Charlotte seems to be the only one who had a little trouble, but that was not much.  She is a little behind her class, especially in handwriting and a little in reading (here 1st grade is approximately equivalent to US Kindergarten and Grade 1 combined.  She finished Kindergarten in the States but is jumping in at the end of Grade 1 here).  Rosie went back about 1/2 a year and so has no trouble academically.  Because of the age cut off here, she would have been almost 2 years younger than the kids in her class if we had kept her where she was.  That was just too big of a gap, especially when adjusting to a new country and dealing with all of the upheaval.  She seems to have made a few friends already (when we picked her up she was walking with one little girl and chatting).  The boys were happy as larks.  Their teacher said that they just had an easy day and mostly played since it was the first day back from a break.  Also, a child in their class had a birthday and so there was cake.  Play all day and eat cake?  I love school!!!!  For now both boys are in the same class but that is because they are allowing Henry to go for the last term where he normally wouldn't have started school until January.  Next year Henry will be in RR again and Liam will move up to R.  




Wednesday, October 3, 2012

A little thing

When most people think of living in Africa they think it's exotic and completely different from the States.  I suppose that's true in a way when you look at the whole picture, but really I find that there is much more the same.  It's like speaking a different language- two languages may have completely different sounding words for an object, but it is essentially the same.  Take the words "dog" and "perro".  Same animal, same relationship to man, but different words.  In the States kids climb oak trees, here my kids climb mango trees.  But when it comes down to it they are still kids having fun and climbing trees.  The kids used to look out for squirrels and get excited when they saw one from the car (seriously), now they look out for monkeys.  The language, the context is different but the life is the same.  

One little addition to our lives comes in our bedtime routine: foot washing.  The kids roam about the garden all day with bare feet and by bedtime their feet are filthy!  I make them wear shoes when going out and about, but many of the children here do not.  I'm still getting used to seeing teenagers at the grocery store with no shoes on.  I confess I chuckle at the thought of those Tom's shoes.  In America it sounds great to send a pair of shoes to a needy kid in Africa, but being here it kinda seems silly.  Even the rich kids don't wear shoes all of the time.  Even funnier to me are the pairs of knock-off Tom's for sale in the stores here.  Oh irony upon irony!  

But I digress.  After the kids have gotten their pjs on and brushed their teeth I line them up in our bathroom.  I use a little basin of water and have them step in and then I scrub.  It's amazing to watch their feet change color!  By the end the water in the basin is orangey brown.  The girls like to go last so they can be the one to soak in the warm water.  The boys just want it over with.  :)  




Monday, October 1, 2012

The Mundane

Believe it or not, I have a lot of time on my hands...in a strange way.  Often I'm occupying or watching the children while James and Dave have studies in the house.  At those times I can't really get into anything or get anything done...except knitting or crocheting.  So, I've been doing a lot of that.  Then in the evenings the kids are all in bed and the dishes are all done and what is a mom to do?  Knit.  

This is what I am working on right now:




Supposedly it will turn into this.  And yes, if I manage to pull it off then I will take a picture of me jumping like that.  Maybe.  Probably.  We'll see.  



Another fun thing that we've been doing is collecting books and rocks.  At the local book store they have a section of books and magazines with extras that are published every week or two.  I've started collecting Agatha Christie books.  Mine come out every 2 weeks.  The girls are collecting a National Geographic series on rocks.  So far they have gold, rose quartz, and amethyst.  Theirs comes out weekly and makes for a fun Monday outing.  We didn't get the chance to go today so tomorrow morning we'll head to CNA (the book store) and check to see if our new books/rocks came in.  



Both of these hobbies actually highlight things that I miss.  It's not so much the country as our location in the country that restricts the availability of products.  Louis Trichardt (or Makhado) is a smallish town in the far north of South Africa.  Like any small town, there just isn't as much here.  We can get everything we need and many things that we enjoy, though.  However, books are not as available- I think Rosie has read through every book for sale in her age range in this town.  We haven't been to the library yet, so that's a possibility.  Still, I am SO glad the kids have kindles!  

The other thing that I miss is nice yarn.  Not expensive or overly fancy yarn, just the ability to choose and get natural fibers.  Even though more people here seem to knit and crochet there is less selection on yarn.  Nearly all of it is acrylic and some cotton thread.  I'd love to get my hands on some soft wool to knit up some cozy sweaters for those chilly African mornings.  That is probably something I'll be ordering online and begging one of my friends to ship to me.  Tweed.  I feel the need for tweed.